

A favourite dream experience for me is anytime I’m flying. Sometimes I fly like a bird flapping my arms like they’re wings, sometimes I take off and fly like Superman, and other times I leap off mountains or tall trees or towers so that I can glide or float lazily to my destination. It doesn’t matter what symbols my subconscious mind uses while dreaming to convince me I’m flying. What really convinces me is the feeling of fluttering in my stomach that is so real and is the same feeling that I have in my waking life when I look down from the top of the CN Tower. But in my flying dreams I feel no fear; just utter freedom, joy and euphoria.
I enjoy my flying dreams so much that when I first heard of lucid dreaming and the possibility of giving yourself an auto-suggestion to dream of whatever you wish, I chose to try to make myself dream of flying. And guess what? It worked.
Flying dreams are thought by some to be related to or indicative of out of body experiences (OBE’s), which will be a topic of a future column. For now let’s explore lucid dreaming.
What is a lucid dream?
A lucid dream is where one becomes aware that s/he is dreaming while sleeping. For many it’s like you suddenly or gradually ‘wake up’ and become aware that you are dreaming while the dream continues on. Instead of being an ‘actor’ in the dream, compelled to experience whatever the dream shows us, many will find they can now be the ‘director’ able to manipulate the dream, change directions, outcome, symbols and the entire dream experience. In other lucid dreams one is merely the observer, conscious that it is a dream but enjoying the different perspective. Lucid dreams have been reported since ancient times in many cultures although they have not been called lucid dreams since then. Tibetan monks practised a form of dream yoga as long as 1300 years ago that entailed remaining aware and awake while falling into a dream state.
The term ‘lucid dream’ was first used by a Dutch psychiatrist Dr. Frederik van Eeden in 1913 in an article he wrote on dreams, and especially in the last 60 years, lucid dreaming has been vigorously studied by both medical scientists and mystics. Due to the scientific research available we now know that lucid dreaming does exist and a mountain of information is available in books and on the internet. It may be the most researched form of dreaming, given the number of studies currently being conducted by scientists and lay people, and why not? What a great and harmless way to escape the pressures of our highly stressful 21st century. Lucid dreaming has been taught to sufferers of frequent nightmares so that they become aware that they are just having a nightmare and over time has helped them reduce their fearfulness and the frequency of their nightmares.
Can I really make myself have a lucid dream?
Probably. It may take some practice but some may be surprised to find that you can experience a lucid dream the first time you try. There are at least four different primary methods used to initiate a lucid dream. One of the simplest ways is to give yourself an auto-suggestion before going to sleep along the lines of “I will become consciously aware of my dreams while dreaming,” or simply, “I will have a lucid dream,” repeated silently or even out loud several times with a calm but focused intent has worked for me. I have also found meditation before going to sleep an invaluable aid to having lucid or other favourite types of dreams, since meditation can be a form of autosuggestion that retrains the mind for various healthy goals.
It may take a few attempts to reach or maintain lucidity. Try to remain calm when you become aware of being lucid in a dream as the experience is exciting and may cause you to wake up. Research has shown that a certain period in your personal sleep cycle may be more prone to lucid dreaming (REM sleep generally) and having a nap a few hours after awakening in the morning seems more conducive to having a lucid dream. Others may become more successful at lucid dreaming while practicing the suggested techniques found in scholarly books and websites on the topic.
I vividly recall my first lucid dream which occurred when I was about five or six years old. I was probably influenced by a cartoon I had recently watched, or maybe Lucky Charms cereal because I had been having a recurring dream about following leprechauns and rainbows and eventually finding a pot of gold. This had occurred a few times with varying details. Sometimes I would find the pot of gold, sometimes not. The recurring dream seemed to progress to me trying to hide or keep the pot of gold when I found it and one time I dreamed that I hid the pot of gold in my bedroom closet. When I woke up I immediately ran to my closet and was sorely disappointed to not find the pot of gold hidden under boxes of toys. Not long after I had the recurring dream again and when I found the pot of gold this time I immediately knew I was dreaming and was lucid throughout the rest of the dream. I watched myself hide the pot of gold in my closet again but lucidly knew it was only a dream and it wouldn’t be there when I woke up. Soon, I did wake up, but I still checked my closet for the hidden pot of gold. Sadly, I haven’t had that recurring dream since then and I miss my leprechauns.
Hmmmm, maybe an auto-suggestion about leprechauns tonight before going to sleep…
Rob Shaw
~ since the 1970’s Rob has been a public speaker and facilitator of holistic health and metaphysical topics such as astrology, meditation, chakras and dream study, rshawis@gmail.com. If you have a dream you would like explained write to
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